Reflection on AMAL tips:
Amal tips, from the very beginning, have been very helpful to me, in just a few weeks I have started to sense the change in me.
Honestly speaking, I was doing self-talk before but all I was doing was “you can’t do it, don’t even take it for yourself, your idea is dumb, people will laugh” etcetera. This Amal tip has given my the same mind to be better in a way, that I feel myself to be able to encourage myself if no one is there to do so. This is so far my most favorite, as I am controlling myself by some really positive and encouraging things, which will ultimately have an impact on everything I do, and also my perspective will be dealt with accordingly.
I had my comfort zone till my school days, as they passed, every single level was very difficult for me to adjust to. So I tried to make my own circle even of 3 people and stay in it no matter what, as I was so shy speaking to strangers, not confident enough to give ideas, that was also a kind of comfort zone to me, but now I got the essence of success which is in getting out of the comfort zone, as you will not be served success on a plate, sitting in your couch.
Starting new habits will not only have an impact on your happiness but will have an impact on your work-life eventually, learning new things are crazily fun, as you don’t stick to one thing and leave it if you get bored, so creating a hobby which gives you pleasure is indeed going to change the fixed mindset.
Ask for help is a very good tip, as a human being can’t be perfect at things, so asking for help may decrease the chances of failure and it may also lead to a good network as Sohail sb suggested.
It is a very helpful tip to pretend as if you have the mindset adopted till you actually have, sometimes your mind tricks you and does the actions according to the pretense, which may become a helpful thing afterward, So fake it till you make it. I am going to implement it till it gets to the point where I think there is no need to pretend anymore. To keep a check on it I will be accounting myself, am I making decisions on the basis of my pretentious mindset or the old mindset I have?!.
